#Am i gay or bi quara mods
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No GSRM-Phobic content (i.e: homophobia, bi/panphobia, transphobia, aphobia, as well as racism, serophobia, ableism, or sexism) If you are submitting a post that contains hateful remarks or triggering language, please precede your post's title with. All are welcome to participate who agree to follow the rules outlined below: Rules 1: Be respectful If he's treating sex with you as a status goal, then he's treating you wrongly.ĭitch the zero and get yourself a hero, or be your own hero.This subreddit is by and for people who are Gender, Sexual and Romantic Minorities (GSRM), including but by no means limited to LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender) people, and respect for our diversity and experiences is paramount. Fair enough that he's inexperienced, but it sounds like he also just completely lacks any tenderness with you. That's not a Sexual men thing, honey that's just a bad and selfish lover. Because he fails to tell them about all of the sexual favors that I do for him. Ugh.one of these days.one of these days I'll finally get it done with so he can boast his manliness to his friends. At least when he fingered me he'd be right next to me and able to pet and hold me and comfort me, but for when we try sex, it really does remind me of Animal Planet. Like making my legs go off the side of the bed and making this weird, unattractive, kinda creepy "determined/serious" face.
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The worst part is that since he's a virgin too, he doesn't know how to deal with another virgin so he does things that seem wrong.
He hasn't been able to make it in more than in inch and it's horribly painful, uncomfortable, and leaves me crying. It seemed like after his first attempt, he practically threw foreplay out the window and just wants to get the job done. But still, after a few of that and when he was able to get two fingers in there, we tried sex again. Well, the fingering wasn't much better, I was whimpering, crying, and in pain. The fingering wasn't for enjoyment though, it was so he could hopefully prepare me more for having sex (we had tried once before this, and it was horribly painful and I was crying). My boyfriend "popped my cherry" while fingering me.